Thursday, August 21, 2008

6 Tips on how to be happy

Most people think that in order to be happy, one must have a lot of money, big car, big house, sail boat, great sound system, latesthandphone, etc etc. Do you notice that most of people are referingsomething that is tangible. In short, to own something tangible,then one will be happy. Is that really true? NO...Not all therich people are happy. Simply because they cannot buy theintangible thing in their life. Money cannot buy true love.
Most people look for happiness "outside" themselves and not "inside". There are some who may not seek happiness in material things but they are still not looking in the right place. They feel that they would be happy if they found the right life partner or if their children loved them more. Even in such cases, these people are searching for happiness "outside" themselves.
If you believe that your mind can make you happy, then here are some tipsthat can re-enforce the belief.
1. Self-AwarenessOne common factor that make a lot of people unhappy is because they do notreally love or life themselves. Is it vital to know and accept yourself.Be more self-awareness. Do not bother about your looks, your body, yourcapabilities or your financial conditions. Do not let those negative energy invade your thoughts. You will realize that once you are comfortable with what you are, others will accept you more willingly.
2. Free your mind from worriesWorries is negative form of energy. The more worries you are, the most likelinessthat you will attract the negative energy to you. Thus, to be happy, get ridof your worrieness, anxiety, fear. If a cup is full of water, you cannot fillanymore to the cup. Same as if your mind is full of worries, how to fill allthe happiness to it? If you have made up your mind to be happy, you can always seek out the positive aspects of a situation and remain happy. Life may throw challenges at you but solutions will come faster and to you if you face them with a smile on your face.
3. Stay healthyNothing is more valuable than your health and little is more likely to make you unhappy than ill-health. An unhealthy body cannot be the home of a happy mind.The healthier you are, the stronger mind you have to in order to get morepositive energy for your happiness.
4. Be gratefulBe thankful for all the people around you and be grateful for all the money you have now.Simply by giving smile and thanks to people will make a lot different to others people.Give more and expect less, so give out lots of compliments. Give to charities regularlyeither using your time or your money. You will make others feel good about themselves and find that this gives you pleasure too.
5. Simplify your lifeMake your life more meaningful. Having a lot of stuff doesn't guarantee meaningful life.Spend less than you earn so that you wouldn't have to worry about your bill. Spendmore time with your love one will create a meaningful life and it also createpositive energy for happiness
6. Reward yourselfIt is important that you learn how to balance your life. Treat yourself often eventhough it is something 'cheap and cheerful' such as chocolates, flowers, a magazine, a cake, a CD. You may also reward yourself once a monthto spent on expensive restaurant (under your comfort budget).
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